Everyone has problems letting a relationship go. Most people take their time and move on but if you’re sure this was the person of your dreams, you shouldn’t have let go. The problems with some relationships are pretty minor and talking about things and how to overcome issues can generally sort things out for couples but at times, even that won’t help. You end up breaking and even after that, there’s a chance that you won’t be getting over this person.
How difficult is it to pull the relationship back?
If you want to get back with your ex, there are simple things you could do like resolving the issues by talk. But that will only work if you and your ex are in the same place. If your ex has clearly moved on and has started dating someone else already, it is just better to step out of the way. But if that’s not the case, you can definitely sit together and talk about your feelings. Hopefully, things will get better for the both of you and you will get the chance of getting back with your ex.
Another simple thing you could practice is using jealousy. When your exes see you with other people, they think you have moved on and don’t want them anymore. This is the time they will want you back again. But if you’re taking such a step, you need to be careful as well. On very rare occasions, your ex may see you with somebody new and assume you have moved on and try to move on themselves. It’s a tricky thing and instead of this plan working, it may even backfire on you. Your ex would move on as well and start dating other people. That’s not something you will like.
Few expert tips
To get your ex back, never lose contact with them. Well, for the first few weeks after the break up you should space out and think clearly about what would your next step be. Only then move on from the initial trauma and try to act towards what you want. Patch things up with your ex again and offer to be friends at first. While being friends, you would understand if your ex still misses you and you would make amends right then. If you’re having communication issues after the break up, things would be difficult to mend and sometimes you would be cutting down the link by which you both can get back.